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Naomi Kanakia's avatar

OMG do you just love the parts of Proust where he finally meets Mme de Villeparisis and Bergotte--these authors he has loved--and realizes they are NOT AT ALL COOL! That they are writing about cool stuff from such a distance, such a remove, and that there mere fact that they are ambitious writers sort of disqualifies them from ever truly being a part of fashionable society. Admittedly, Proust's novel is in part about the change in social mores that allows, say, an insufferable bourgeois Mme. de Verdurin to start running a fashionable salon in 1920--an idea that would've been unthinkable in 1890.

I think people can successfully write about being cool if, like Proust, they've retreated from society and are in no way any longer attempting to be cool themselves =]

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Alexandra Sizemore's avatar

Very cool piece, I really enjoyed it! You could see the grandparents of a lot of modern ideas about style and elegance and money in this one. I especially enjoyed that the idea of stealth wealth was still present even back then. I think elegance might be out of the running for me by these definitions, because I’d rather have the hand-me-downs than have to keep updating perfectly good things to stay relevant/elegant.

Much like Ken, this felt a tad satirical to me. Almost like a 19th-century Preppy Handbook. Is that just a misreading of the tone do you think?

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